Out of the Box

I recently signed up with the Greetings Ministry at church.  I'm not sure what I was thinking because I really am not a people person.  I prefer to blend in with the crowd, stand in the back and not do anything that calls attention to myself.  I have difficulties with formalities and social niceties.  Some things just don't come naturally to me, so I tend to feel out of place quite easily.  I prefer behind-the-scenes work, rather than up front and personal.  My decision has been weighing on me heavily and truthfully, I wasn't looking forward to my turn.  I was seriously having some trouble with this out-of-the-box decision I'd made.

While we were getting ready for church this morning, I mentioned to Shawn that after seeing how this morning went as a greeter, I was thinking of suggesting the idea to Noah.  I could see it as a great opportunity for him to practice his social skills (I'm practicing mine, after all!) and to get out there where he'd have to deal with real people.  I saw it as an opportunity for him to mature, grow and be more responsible, as well.  Shawn agreed it sounded like a good idea (maybe I'll sign him up for it next!).

When we arrived at church, Noah asked if I had to sign up for the Greeting Ministry or if it was something I was told I had to do.  I explained the process and how I volunteered.  He sounded interested and asked a few more questions, which I answered.  Then I heard, "Mom?  Can I do it with you this morning?"

YES!!!!!!!  If this particular ministry is out of my box, it is HUGELY out of Noah's box.  I was proud of him for just asking if he could help!  This was a major step for Noah.  We had a quick talk about being mature, then practiced a few different ways he could greet people as they arrived, stressing eye contact and smiling.  I told him that some people like to shake hands or hug, so he might have to do that, too.  We've talked before about having a servant's heart (when we work at the center), so I stressed that point again, also.

I have to say, Noah made me proud today.  He served with me, greeting like a pro!  He remembered everything we'd talked about and did his very best.  Noah stuck it out all the way through to the end, but also letting me know when he'd had enough.  He was social, and as mature, calm and focused as a ten year old Aspy can be!  I'm super proud of him today!  Noah and I had fun together, and in the end, I'm glad I signed up to greet.

By the way....  Greeting didn't kill either one of us!