I Already Have a Job

My children will soon by returning to school.  Noah is in eighth grade, and Avery is starting *gasp* kindergarten. Can I just say I'm grateful I don't have to conquer high school AND kindergarten in the same year?  Both boys being in school full time has led to the inevitable question by many: "So are you getting a job? Returning to work? What will you do with yourself and all that free time?"

My answer is quite simple:  I already have a full time job.  I am a mom.  I am blessed that I am able to continue to be a stay at home mom, with all the, um, perks and frills.

I understand what they are really asking is if I will get a job outside of the home.  If, in fact, I will get a life.  Hmmm.  They are, for the most part, making polite conversation.  Society tends to view SAHMs as tied down and burdened by our children, and full time school is a chance to break free from those full time children-chains, right?  A chance to reassert ourselves as women and individuals, to obtain our identity once again as someone other than a mother.

*Ahem.*

My plans are simple.  I hope to return to the gym, find some time for myself, and take part in Bible studies with my church.  I want to volunteer more.  If possible, I'm hoping maybe Lilly and I can start doing some agility training.  I think she would really love that, and it would be healthy for both of us.  These are things I've wanted to do, but would've required being away from my children and leaving them with sitters.  My goal is to concentrate on my health, physically, emotionally, and spiritually, so I can be healthier for my family.  I even hope to have the chance to properly clean my house!

No, I will not be looking for a job outside of the home.  I am a mom first and foremost.  I am fulfilled here, and we are blessed that I don't need to work.  My kids still need me full time.  This is where I am needed most.  Motherhood is where I am called to be.

Maybe some day I will "get a job and return to work."  But not today.